Understanding Unconditional Love

Understanding Unconditional Love

When we do not yet understand that Love cannot be contained in any one person, then, when that person leaves, it seems that love has abandoned us.  This is what causes us ‘heart break’.  The heart will break itself over and over again until we realise that this is a...
Is Non-Monogamy an avoidance of ‘going-deeper’ in Relationship?

Is Non-Monogamy an avoidance of ‘going-deeper’ in Relationship?

A question was asked whether non-monogamy was an avoidance of ‘going deeper’.  I used to believe this whole heartedly – that somehow, the container of monogamy, allowed one to ‘feel safe’ enough to open to another, thus allowing a relationship to deepen.  I...

The Shadow

What is the Shadow?  It is the part of yourself that you keep hidden from the world.  Either it is not accepted by society or it is not accepted by you or both.  There is a fear of the consequences that will arise if you allow this part of yourself to emerge.  Inside...

The Feminine Split and the Return to Love

The Feminine is our curvaceous feeling Self, who delights at the contours and the sensory, moving forms of life.  She tastes Life, licks It, drinks It, smiles and laughs with It.  She feels herself as It and delights in the play with herself that is not herself...
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